Mar 302014

It was a nasty kind of evening.  It had been the I’m-pretty-sure-I-have-a-sinus-infection-but-don’t-have-time-to-go-to-the-doctor sort of day followed by an “invigorating” dinner with my kiddos while my husband worked late.  Let’s just say by the time Dr. J got home, I was very much wanting hole up ALONE and make nice with my INFJ personality.

Doubtful that anything could really help knock off my grouchy pants, but wanting to try, I picked up my copy of Suburban Haiku: Poetic Dispatches from Behind the Picket Fence by Peyton Price.  I read the first page.  I snorted.  I read a few more pages and started fumbing for the post-it pad I keep in nightstand.  I wanted to tag a couple of the haikus as my favorites. Twenty minutes later, I had blown through my entire stash of post-its.

The problem with marking my favorites?  They were so many gems, a post-it pretty much ended up on every page.  The moral of this story?  Buy the book and throw a stockpile of post-its in your Amazon cart before you check out.  You’ll need them.

With haikus such as these, you may also need to grab a box or two of Kleenex for all the laugh-tears you’ll shed:

When I’m in snit
I throw away recycling
Haha! Take that Earth!
That Whole Foods trail mix
is for this Friday’s playate
Just have a Pop-Tart
At Target for socks
but we do need a blender
and patio chairs


Peyton is a very cool chick with a wicked sharp sense of humor.  She is not only funny, she is multi-talented.  As she self-describes on her “About the Author” page, “Her special skills include getting the worst end of the deal in every single carpool and not realizing she just replied-all to a group text.” I know.  This girl really can do it all.

And since it comes in such a sweet perfect little pink hardcover square shape?  It’s screams, “Gift me!”.  Snatch it up for that someone in your life–anyone who is rocking out suburbia or who can appreciate all the fine intricacies of life in the preschool pick-up fastlane.

Since Peyton is so fantastic, she not only designed the tote above, she is giving away one of them with a copy of the book to one of my readers!  So hop in the Rafflecopter below, friends, and go show her some lovin’.  As long as you are 18 or older and live in the continental U.S., you are eligible to enter!

Go grab her book and spend a fantastic evening hanging out in the burbs with Suburban Haiku: Poetic Dispatches from Behind the Picket Fence!

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*I was sent a copy of this book for review, but no other compensation was given in exchange for this review.  All opinions are 100% mine.  Though I do have a ginormous crush on Peyton, mostly because of her adorable first name, so my glowing adoration of her might be slightly blantant.


Mar 242014
Source C'mon over; we'll get the word out!

C’mon over; we’ll get the word out!

I have long wondered about doing more formal advertising here at The Mom of the Year.  Would it work?  Was it really my kind of thing? Would anyone think it was worth it to stick their name on my blog to get some lovin’? Was I insane?

I’m still not totally sure.  But friends, it’s been almost two and a half years since I kicked this puppy off.  And the thing is, it’s grown. While this is a tremendous blessing, I’d be lying if didn’t say the time investment wasn’t a stress and strain on my family.  Any blogger gets what I’m saying.  So to keep with it, it has become time to bite the bullet so I can pursue some fancy things like scoring a sitter for my kids–and maybe once in a while my blog too, so my husband doesn’t divorce me.  I have heard rumors about this crazy “unplugging” thing??

And since The Mom of Year has grown and continues to grow so much, through publication opportunities, readership, and social media reach, I’m now in a position where I able to help spread the word about some other nifty blogs out there.  Building a blog?  NOT EASY.  I remember when I first bought ad space. I remember how patient and supportive the blogger was with me, and how very cool it was to get new eyes on my site and connect with new readers.  I could now offer this same help for other bloggers?

Source We'll shout your awesomeness out together

We’ll shout your awesomeness out together

See, I like The Mom of the Year.  I like it a lot.  I like the space that’s been created–not just here on the site, but on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, and Google+.  I would love to share it with some other blogs who are looking to grow. So c’mon over, let’s hang out together and work to spread the word about what you are trying to do.

I have created a new page explaining the new advertising opportunities that are now available, so please head over and check it out!  And as a bonus for the first month of kicking this off, I am offering a special promo discount of 50% off!  Promo code: MOTY. That’s right, since you’re my first customers, I want to do a great job for you AND give you a super-awesome bargain.

Sign up and let’s make this happen together!

Source Can't promise to be Peggy Olson and I'm not backed by the Dream Team, but we'll get the job done.

Can’t promise to be Peggy Olson and I’m not backed by the Dream Team, but we’ll get the job done!

Mar 072014
What in the world is this insanely cool thing I'm wearing??

What in the world is this insanely cool thing I’m wearing??

We have a problem here, folks.  My 2 yr. old daughter is not yet potty-trained (I know, I’ll wait while you gasp in the horror over this grave parental short-coming).  She also never stops moving. Ever. Even in her sleep, the adorable young thing thrashes about with a vigor known to wildcats the world over .

Now we’re no stranger to baby blow-outs and leak-throughs around here, but I am learning this whole insanely active toddler still in diapers is its own beast.  Even the most well-timed diaper changes leave her sweet nursery teachers handing me plastic bags filled with her soiled duds when I go to pick my gal up after her class is over.

Gah. Someday, hopefully soon, we’ll school this whole potty-training situation, but in the meantime, when Huggies asked me to check out their new diapers, I was all, “Yes!  Oooh!  Me, please!!” With a name like “Huggies® Snug & Dry Diapers with SureFit* Design“, I was feeling really hopeful.

We got the diapers (read: I made the typical panicked begging call to my husband to stop on his way home from work because we were almost out) and I decided to let these diapers have the true test–I set my daughter loose on them.

It IS him!  That's Mickey!!

It IS him! That’s Mickey!!

After she finished squeeing over the pictures of Mickey, we got them on her cute little butt.  Typical Elyse-behavior commenced.  She climbed on the walls, she danced, she spent a lot of time looking at herself and being thrilled.  And you know what else?  Mommy fell in love because the diapers stayed in place.  And didn’t leak–even overnight.

I know, check that ruching!

I know, check that ruching!

What’s new about these diapers?  In addition to the same trusted Leak Lock® protection parents have come to love, only Huggies® Snug & Dry Diapers have SureFit*Design, to provide long-lasting fit for up to 12 hours of leakage protection.  My favorite part is the underwear-like SnugFit Waistband for that seems to hug my daughter’s waist and move with all her twists and turns.  Her favorite part?  Definitely those cool Mickey Mouse pics.

I’ll be honest, I’m really hoping we can kick diapers to the curb sooner than later, but until we do?  Huggies® Snug & Dry Diapers with SureFit* Design is our new best friend.

Since they are available from size 1-6, if it takes longer than I hope to boot the diapers, we should still be able to squeeze her in them for a while.  And not that I ever love paying for diapers, but if you have to, the suggested retail price of $9.99 for a Jumbo Pack and $19.99 for a Big Pack is pretty reasonable.

Every good doctor needs to be well supported

Every good doctor needs to be well supported

Another reason to love on Huggies?  You can visit the Huggies Challenge website to take the Huggies® Challenge – complete challenges and win prizes.  When you take the Huggies Challenge, you can win Huggies Rewards Points which can be used towards free diapers and free samples. Two lucky testers will win Huggies diapers & wipes for an entire year! Drawings for these prizes will take place on May 12th and August 25th.

And completing a challenge isn’t only fun with the hope of scoring something cool, it’s a way to help others out too.  For every new challenge completed, Huggies Every Little Bottom will donate diapers to a baby in need.  Love it.

With challenges like "Bubble Popping", Huggies might have just found a way to keep family entertained for a few minutes.  God love them!

With challenges like “Bubble Popping”, Huggies might have just found a way to keep family entertained for a few minutes. God love them!

So go ahead–stash that pile of dishes out of sight for another few minutes and go treat yourself to teensy break.  Trust me, with challenges like “Triple Mess Manor” and “Baby Date Night”, it’s all relatable good fun ;)

Go play a game, get your Huggies on and help a diaper up a sweet little bottom!

********* This post is sponsored by Huggies, but my love for Snug & Dry and all opinions are my own!**********

Feb 032014
The Before Gah! Ghastly, I know...

The Before
Gah! Ghastly, I know…

When SmileBrilliant wanted to send me a teeth-whitening system, I was all “twist my arm”.  Not that I’m paranoid about my yellowish teeth at all…

You see, Mike from SmileBrilliant was patient with me.  He was kind.  He encouraged me to participate and followed up when my whole consumed-with-the-holidays situation left me a bit sluggish with sending in my teeth impressions on a timely basis.

Whaaa???  Teeth impressions?  Yes, you’ve got it.  Smile Brilliant is the real deal–they go all out and send you a package to take impressions of your teeth and send them back to the company.  The company processes the impressions and sends them back to you as perfectly formulated molds.  In the comfort of your own home, you then fill the molds with the whitening gel Smile Brilliant provides and experience a custom teeth-whitening experience.

Since I generally find comfort in numbers, I begged my sister to give this a swing with me.  As it turns out, she surpassed me in teeth-whitening savvy.  She is just “that good”. Not jealous AT ALL. Whereas my initial impressions were insufficient (apparently I inadvertently wiggled the molds too much), she got it right on the first try.  No loss; SmileBrilliant gave me a free “second chance” to get them right, and after Attempt#2, we were off and running.

Teeth whitening trays in place. Result? I only look marginally psychotic, so success declared

Teeth whitening trays in place. Result? I only look marginally psychotic, so Success declared

HOLY COW.  In just one usage, I saw a DIFFERENCE.  Since my sister is more competent than me and got her molds right on the first attempt, she has had opportunity to use her whitening system more and reports significant results.  Maybe someday I can catch up to her; for now, I will just be thrilled with the MAJOR IMPROVEMENT I HAVE SEEN AFTER A FEW USES.

Listen, you can throw your cash out on all the drug store whitening systems you want, but if you actually want to change up the color of your teeth, you need to go pro.  Go pro with a system like SmileBrilliant.  They are the real deal.  They provide customized trays for your mouth to get you the results that you want.

Use them. Trust me. And if you’re on the fence? Enter below to win a complete customized teeth whitening system (valued at $150!).  As long as you are a resident of the continental United States, you are eligible to enter.  I’m kind of super-excited to offer this giveaway because SmileBrilliant has been such a terrific thing for me–I would love for you to have the same experience.

Not that scary, really,  and SUPER-IMPRESSIVE

Not that scary, really, and SUPER-IMPRESSIVE

So enter, love on in to SmileBrilliant and next time you see me?  PLEASE make a remark as to how shiny white my teeth are–I will love you forever.

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****This is a compensated post from SmileBrilliant, yet all opinions remain entirely my own****

Jan 292014
Source Hold onto that remote--there's a lot to be said for these commercials

Hold onto that remote–
there’s a lot to be said for these commercials

Who loves commercial breaks?  No one, unless you have to pee or they’re the fantastic ads aired during the Superbowl. But commericals are a bit of a sticky wicket because they are necessary.  If you want to see your nifty TV shows, you’ve gotta pay for them somehow (and unfortunately, the right arm you donated to Comcast last month somehow still doesn’t cover the bill?).  So we pony up, and suffer through yet another ex-Jenna Maroney Tropicana orange juice commercial because Revenge never gets old.

The thing is, this blogging world isn’t so different than TV. While we bloggers are always instantaneously full of effortless wit and deep life-changing insight, we are still human.  I know, I’ll let you take a minute to digest this mind-blowing (and perhaps totally sarcastic) revelation.  We still have families who house goldfish crackers in bulk, wrecked minivans to repair on a frighteningly regular bases, and there is, of course, the water bill for the showers we try to squeeze in at least every few days.

Also, we work incredibly hard at it.  Pouring your heart and soul out publicly a few times a week?  Not so easy.  Doing it with minimal spelling errors and a general respect for proper English language?  It can get tricky.  Throw in endless hours doing the necessary networking so you don’t get buried in the blogosphere and trying to beat the latest Facebook algorithims so you can get at least 10 eyes on your status updates, and well…it’s a lot.

Source Oh yeah, we're making bank around here

Oh yeah, we’re making bank around here

On Monday I already went on about why this gig is important to me. And it is, so, so important to me. Dr. J and I have prayed about it until God’s ears hurt, and the upshot: this is what we’re doing right now.  But it is hard, very hard, and getting compensated for the hard work would be swell.  Not so I can make a ton of money and be famous (show me a blogger who has done that and I’ll say, “Yeah, I know, The Bloggess is awesome”), but so this job could have the normal result of any other job: I get paid for it so I can help pay our bills.  Maybe even do something crazy like hire a sitter once in a while so my kids can get attention while I work?

So this brings us to the commercials–this is how bloggers get paid and they are going to happen.  How do the commercials look on a blog?

  • ad space in the sidebars (maybe banner ads on the top and bottom too).
  • Sponsored posts. This is when I dedicate an entire post telling you about a specific product or service. I can promise you this will always be something I genuinely think is cool and as a bonus, many of these will have neat giveaway for you, my readers, so it’s not a bad thing to tune into these posts.
  • Social media touts, or posts/pins/etc. put up on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest or Google +.

What can you do?  Just like a real commercial, if they really irritate you or you have to quick change up a load of laundry, tune out.  It’s okay. I won’t know, and I understand.  I am so thankful to have readers who do this and don’t complain, tolerating the paid stuff because they know it needs to be done.

However, if you’ve got a spare second, like I said, tune in.  You might find some really cool stuff through these posts and winning something is always the best.  I remember the first time I scored a treat through a blog giveaway and burning my new lux candle was so sweet!  (Thanks, Caffienated Chronicles of a Super Mom!)

Also?  You could help me.  Any likes, comments, or shares dramatically helps me boost my reach, especially on Facebook.  YES, IT MAKES THAT MUCH OF DIFFERENCE IF YOU JUST CLICK “Like” ON ONE OF MY FACEBOOK STATUSES.  This is a good thing for me, because it helps increase my stats overall, which can in turn help me get better and more compensated opportunities for me (companies regularly check bloggers’ numbers).

And as I mentioned before, Facebook is really making it challenging by limiting who they show our posts to.  If you don’t already like Mom of the Year, or could ask some friends to follow me, this would truly mean the world.  It’s a small thing, but makes a big difference.  It is always super-helpful if you sign-up to subscribe by e-mail to get posts (upper right-hand corner on this blog).

In short, thanks for your patience.  And now back to your regularly-scheduled programming. xo, readers.

When More than Mommies nailed this explanation of compensated blogging.  You rock, ladies!

More than Mommies nailed this explanation of compensated blogging.
THANK YOU, ladies!

Jan 222014
Hanging out with my gal

Hanging out with the cool gal

In this world, it can be a little tricky to meet people you connect with.  Finding those kindred spirits?  What a rare gift. I can’t say how blessed I feel that my path crossed with Stephanie Giese, the powerhouse behind Binkies and Briefcases, a while back through this blogging world.  Steph is a breath of fresh air with her realism, kindness and wicked smartness.  She’s a true friend, and there is no one I would rather be planning this Blog U Conference with.

Steph never fails to impress me.  Most recently, she is hitting it out of the ballpark with her new children’s book, The Cookie Jar Parable.  She tells you all about the book and the sweet, personal story and prayer of how it came to be here, but in short, she wrote this book to help kids process their grief after a loss in a way that makes sense to them.  

illustration-from-the-cover-of-The-Cookie-Jar-Parable @meredithspidel @binkiesandbrief

As it says on the back of the book:

Elliot’s grandpa is in Heaven now, and Elliot is sad. He is a little nervous to visit Grandma’s house since Grandpa won’t be there anymore. Will she be upset? Is she lonely?

During their visit Grandma shares a special story with Elliot. Her story is about a jar full of cookies that have been created to be part of a great celebration. Through “The Cookie Jar Parable” Grandma is able to help Elliot understand that it is all right to be scared of death and loss, but on the other side there is a wonderful celebration waiting for us.

This book is perfect for my kids.  At 2 and 4, they are only starting to get that their Grandma is “gone”. My 4 yr. old son is working really hard on the concept of “death” and “Heaven”, and anything that can help us with this would be, in the most literal sense of the word, a Godsend.

The meaning of the books translates well into different faiths, and is full of colorful illustrations to appeal to young ones. Also, it’s only 6″x7″, so it’s great for small hands and for throwing in a backpack.

illustration The cookie jar parable @binkiesandbrief @meredithspidel


I’m so thrilled with this book!  Thanks to Steph for creating such cool tool to help us parents as we navigate through a more difficult piece of this world with our kiddos.

Check it out on Amazon (you can preorder now and it will be available for sale on 1/28/14), enter below to win one of 2 signed copies below.  As long as you are 18 or older and a resident of the continental U.S., you are good to go!
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Jan 122014

I crush on books.  I stalk them.  I love them.  Ginormous geek alert: when I get my monthly new release update e-mail, my fingers shake a bit with anticipation as I click over to find the treasures that await.

I was pretty stoked a few months ago when I heard about The Paris Architect, a novel about an architect living in German-occupied who has a very unique job.  I eagerly put it on my to-read list.

Then a funny thing happened.  I got to chatting with in-real-life friend who lives around the corner from me, and she started telling me about how her dad just published a new book.  And yes, you’ve got it–the book he wrote was The Paris Architect!  I squeed a little over being in the once-removed proximity of such a legit cool author.  Then I squeed more when she offered to bring over a copy for me to review and read.

And then the squeeing never really stopped because I LOVED the book.  I was wowed by the incredibly creative plot backed by superb character development and skilled writing talent. I was kept on my toes and couldn’t put it down.  You know the really good books when your heart races a bit through the end, as you nervously wait to see what will happen?  Yeah, that.

The plot truly was phenomenal. The main character, Lucien, is a gifted architect who has to make some tough choices and use his craft in very meaningful and unique ways.  My initial impression of Lucien so wholly changed by the end of book, and to me, this speaks of character development at it’s finest.

My favorite part of this novel, however was how Belfoure drew on his own personal experience of being an architect and having a mother in a forced labor camp during the war.  The way he transcribed events of Queen Elizabeth I’s reign into a different era was impressively original and smart.

Yet I was most wowed by Belfoure’s heartfelt letter of introduction at the beginning and acknowledgements at the end.  His vulnerable recognition of working through a dark period in his life touched me, and I am now a definitive fan, looking forward to whatever Belfoure has next in store.

In short, read The Paris Architect!

**************No compensation for this post, just genuinely loved the book ;)*************



Dec 152013

Thank you so much to all who have ordered!  Bringing you a show update and a final reminder that THE LAST DAY TO ORDER FOR THIS SHOW AND HELP THE NICU FAMILIES IS MONDAY, 12/16/13.  If you order by 12/18/13, you will still get your items in time for Christmas!

The items are truly beautiful and being the bargain-shopping aficionado I am, I can’t get over these Dot Dollars–basically if you spend $50 now, you get $25 to spend in January, so it’s like getting half of your money back.  The real kicker?  This is even good on gift card orders, so it’s like getting $75 to spend for only $50.  Love it!

Dot Dollars @meredithspidel @stelladot

I have small ginormous attraction to Stella and Dot.  It’s actually problematic because when I see the stuff, my heart starts to quicken and I may drool a bit.  The gorgeousness is just that overwhelming.

In general I am not a fan of “parties”; any pressurized buying situation can be uneasy, but when the lovely and kind Valerie came to me and asked if there was a way we could team up together to help out a local charity for the holidays, this sounded cool.  This may be one of the times having social media reach could be a nifty thing?

So we took the pressure out and set up an online trunk show (read: browse at your leisure and please honor the Mom of the Year classiness by staying in your pajamas while you shop) to benefit a cause that is near and dear to my heart.

Very dear friends of ours had their daughter in the NICU of a local hospital just two short years ago, and through their experience, we learned all too well what a difficult and taxing time this is for the whole family.  Our friends are such neat people that they set up The Families of Chester County Hospital NICU fund.  They wow me.  You can read more of their story, see some pictures, and hear about the creative fundraising efforts they have already done HERE.  While their daughter was in the NICU, they discovered how valuable help with practical things, like gas, babysitting for other children in the family, meals, and clothing for premies.  This fund works to assist these families in a hands-on way by providing gas and grocery gift cards.

How can you help?  Just click on this link and buy a piece or two (or a bunch!) of jewelry for someone on your list this year.  Or treat yourself to a sparkly accessory for that holiday party and feel like a princess!  It’s all beautiful, and it all helps families in need, as Valerie is sending a portion of all sales from this show to the NICU fund.

There are all kinds of specials going on to help you ace out your holiday shopping on the cheap.  Check out some of the ads below, like the monthly specials (for every order over $50, purchase up to one OF EACH of the featured items for half off) and the Stock-Up Sale (buy any two items in that boutique and get the third half off).

Stella & Dot December specials @meredithspidel

From now through the end of December, snatch up one of these deals!

More December specials available through this show!

More December specials available through this show!


Yeah, this bracelet kind is the kind of amazing.

Yeah, this bracelet kind is the kind of amazing, I know…

Another bonus to ordering? Valerie is giving away a light bracelet (see beside) to one person who places an order through this show (chosen at random after show closes).  While I am happy for you all to have a chance to win this, I’m also, quite honestly, very jealous, as I think it is a really fantastic bracelet. You can just order away; I’ll get over it.

I know you are probably “invited” to a million of these kind of shows/parties this time of year, but if you need to snag a gift, please pop by and grab something!  Valerie is being so generous with the percentage of sales she donates, and I would love to be able to send a sweet check to The Families of Chester County Hospital NICU for the holidays.  This time of year, it is especially hard to have your little one in the hospital instead of home with you, and how wonderful to be able to let these families know that they are thought of and cared for.

Thanks so much, friends, and happy shopping!

***Find Valerie at her Stella Dot website or on Facebook!***

Dec 022013

Heaven in a 9x13

Heaven in a 9×13

Let’s be honest. Asking me to cook? Generally a poor idea. Very poor. But when BlogHer and Campbell’s asked me to whip up a little something with one of their cooking soups, it was obviously Meant To Be, because as it turns out, the one recipe I make well and enjoy making features Campbell’s Cream of Mushroom soup.

This recipe is extraordinary. Extraordinary because it’s from my grandmother, but I never wrote it down. I just started making it after watching her make it for years. And while she has passed, so I can’t check in with her now, I’m think it’s pretty darn close to what she made.

Extraordinary because it tastes awesome.

Extraordinary because it’s easy.

Extraordinary because my kids LOVE IT.

Of course, I take all of this to mean that the recipe is indeed God-ordained, and continue to make it with an excited vengeance at least every month. My husband has yet to complain.

I have no idea how to make raw chicken look appealing. This is one of many reasons I am not a food blogger.

I have no idea how to make raw chicken look appealing. This is one of many reasons I am not a food blogger.

Check out the recipe below. And make it. In honor of my grandma, and in honor of of the rare evening I don’t feel like a total failure in the kitchen.

But listen, if Grandma’s Swiss Chicken Casserole gets old (blasphemy!) or doesn’t work for your family for whatever reason, Campell’s has stocked up on kid-friendly recipes through their The Wisest Kid in the Whole World™ campaign and is bringing them to your dinner table.

So snatch up one of the classic red and white cans and pop over to Campbell’s to find a great new recipe for your family. There are suggestions like kid-friendly Mini Chicken Pot Pies and cool ways for your kids to eat Tomato soup.

For another way to put Campbell’s to awesome use, my all-kitchen-related-matters consultant, Alisa, recommended this recipe for Cheesy Chicken Enchiladas.  And you know what? I’m actually going to give it a whirl. Because if Alisa says it’s good, it must be phenomenal.

Anyway, expand your cooking repertoire and give some new ideas a go! And without further adieu, here is…

Snatch up the red and white can!

Snatch up the red and white can!

Grandma’s Swiss Chicken Casserole

3-4 lb. chicken breasts
2 cans of Campbell’s Cream of Mushroom soup
1 8oz. package of sliced Swiss cheese
1 sleeve of Ritz crackers

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Spoon 1/2 can of soup on the bottom of 9×13 pan.
Line chicken breasts in the pan.
Spoon remaining soup over the top.
Layer with the Swiss cheese slices (break them apart as necessary to cover the chicken).
Break up Ritz crackers and sprinkle over the t0p.
Bake for 45 minutes or until dish is bubbly and cheese slightly browns.

***This post is sponsored by BlogHer and Campbell’s, but all opinions remain 100% original***

Dig in!

Dig in!


Dec 022013

Below, Stephanie Sprenger tells the powerful story below of how she and Jessica Smock met and then came together to publish an original anthology, The HerStories Project, full of tales of female friendships.  The way she talks about their journey is rich, poignant, and will touch your heart.

I am so in awe of what they have created together.  As I said in my review, “The thing I love most about this anthology is that it embraces the truth of the female friendship, something so rare and beautiful.  It’s the kind of book I want curl up with over a cup of hot tea. Kind of like meeting a friend for coffee but in my own living room–and in my cozy pajama pants, of course. It’s hug on paper from a very talented group of ladies.”

In short, HerStories needs to become your stories.  As in, buy and read ASAP!!  Now I’ll hush up and let Stephanie fill you in on this gorgeous work.  And don’t forget to enter at the bottom for one of two copies of this book that are being given away here!


All women’s friendships tell a story: these sacred bonds define us, and contain our history within walls that are both fragile and powerful. The girlfriend who held your hand during a time of intense grief. The best friend who broke your heart. The woman who helped you find your footing and retain your sanity as a mother. The friendship that turned toxic. The person you don’t think you could survive without. The bonds of female friendship are among the most essential and distinct of all relationships. The friendships in the life of a woman serve as mirrors, reflecting who she was, how she has evolved, and revealing what she needs and craves in her life.

In February 2013, we—Jessica and Stephanie—met in a Facebook group for bloggers. Recognizing common interests, shared favorite authors, and a kinship in spite of stylistic differences, we reached out to each other through blog comments, Facebook posts, and eventually email. An idea was born. After we both read Susanna Sonnenberg’s book, She Matters: A Life in Friendships, we felt inspired to reflect on the friendships that had been most formative in our own lives. Feeling stirred up by this thought-provoking memoir, we realized that other women would most definitely want to share their own stories of friendship, and read the stories of others.

HerStories began as a series of blog posts, evolved into a new website, and eventually became a book — The HerStories Project: Women Explore the Joy, Pain, and Power of Female Friendship– a collection of essays about women’s friendship. We are thrilled to announce that as of today, the book is available!

In this book, 50 women writers paint real pictures of friendship; in addition to paying homage to the beauty and power of their relationships, they share the gritty details of bitter friendship breakups and uncomfortable life transitions. This anthology will enable readers to find their own stories in the words of others, cause them to reflect on their own unique friendship history, and perhaps even inspire them to rekindle connections with women who have shaped them. The authors of this book share their stories of friendship loss, enduring bonds from childhood, navigating the transition to motherhood, and renegotiating the role of friendship in their adult lives. The diverse essays in this collection will evoke tears, laughter, and a deep recognition and appreciation for the friends with whom women everywhere share their lives.

At the beginning of this book, you will find several chapters devoted to understanding friendship. Friendship experts Shasta Nelson and Carlin Flora help to illumine the nature of female friendship and why it is so significant in women’s lives.

Because so many women associate specific times of their life with different friendships, we have organized the book into four sections. In “What’s New,” we explore adult friendships- in real life and online. In “What’s Old,” you will read stories about childhood friendships as well as the relationships between sisters, mothers, and daughters. The “What’s Changed” section is devoted entirely to stories about friendship and motherhood. Our final section of the book, “What’s Lost,” includes stories of grief, loss, and friendship breakups. Whether you identify with the new mother who struggles with loneliness, the woman who looks forward to her social media notifications, the challenging and complex relationship of sisters, or the stories of friendships that have drifted apart, we believe you will recognize yourself somewhere in the pages of this book.

Each essay shines a light on a different aspect of friendship; Julie Burton and Kate Hall write about their relationships with their sisters; Dana Hemelt and Rose Townsend mourn the loss of dear friends; Kristi Campbell and Samantha Brinn Merel share their vulnerable stories of friendships that have drifted apart; Christine Woodruff and Lindsey Mead reflect on the women who helped them through their transition to motherhood.

Compiling this book–and building a new working friendship– has given us both a renewed appreciation of the importance of women’s friendship, which can be just as intimate as marriage and essential to emotional health. The essays in The HerStories Project reflect the multiple layers of women’s friendship- the joy, the pain, and the power.

You can learn more about our project and our fantastic contributors here, and our book is now available on Amazon!


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